{"id":2543,"date":"1997-03-02T10:49:03","date_gmt":"1997-03-02T17:49:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/speeches-dev.byu.edu\/?p=2543"},"modified":"2021-07-27T16:09:07","modified_gmt":"2021-07-27T22:09:07","slug":"come-unto","status":"publish","type":"speech","link":"https:\/\/speeches-dev.byu.edu\/talks\/jeffrey-r-holland\/come-unto\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cCome unto Me\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am honored and privileged to be invited to address you tonight. I am very conscious that your speaker last month was President Gordon B. Hinckley. I am not sure how any of us are supposed to follow him and his marvelous prophetic messages, but if you will promise not to hiss, boo, stalk out, or otherwise show your displeasure, I will do my best. I do ask for your faith and prayers tonight, that the Spirit of the Lord will be unrestrained and with us in great abundance. Our instruction and edification, as the scripture says, is to come \u201cfrom above.\u201d I pray for and await that heavenly guidance even as you do.<\/p>\n

May I say how pleased Sister Holland and I are with the concept of a Churchwide fireside that reaches out to all of the college-age and young-adult audience of the Church, not only in the U.S. and Canada but almost literally around the world. Right after our marriage it was our career decision and good fortune to sign on with the Church Educational System and\u2014one way or another\u2014spend the next 24 years of our lives with you. We were still doing that in 1989 when I was called to full-time service as a General Authority. This is my first opportunity since that call to speak in this setting to a CES audience we have known so well and have loved for so long.<\/p>\n

I am particularly grateful for this beautiful choral rendition provided by the institute choir from Snow College. That beautiful number, one of my very favorite pieces of devotional music, provides not only the Spirit but also the text for my brief message to you tonight. The source for this wonderful selection is the eleventh chapter of Matthew, verses 28\u201330.<\/p>\n

Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.<\/i><\/p>\n

Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.<\/i><\/p>\n

For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.<\/i><\/p>\n

That is my basic message to each of you tonight, wherever you live, whatever your joys or sorrows, however young or old you may be, at whatever point you may find yourself in this mortal journey of ours. Some of you know what you want to be and where you want to go with your lives, and some of you don\u2019t. Some of you seem to have so many blessings and so many wonderful choices ahead of you. Others of you feel, for a time and for whatever reason, less fortunate and with fewer attractive paths lying immediately ahead.<\/p>\n

But whoever you are and wherever you find yourself as you seek your way in life, I offer you tonight \u201cthe way . . . and the life\u201d (John 14:6). Wherever else you think you may be going, I ask you to \u201ccome unto him\u201d as the imperative first step in getting there, in finding your individual happiness and strength and success.<\/p>\n

When Andrew and Philip first heard Christ speak, they were so moved, so spellbound that they followed him as he left the crowd. Sensing that he was being pursued, Christ turned and asked the two men, \u201cWhat seek ye?\u201d (John 1:38). Other translations render that simply \u201cWhat do you want?\u201d<\/p>\n

They answered, \u201cWhere dwellest thou?\u201d or \u201cWhere do you live?\u201d<\/p>\n

And Christ said, \u201cCome and see.\u201d Just a short time later he formally called Peter and others of the new apostles with the same spirit of invitation, \u201cCome, follow me\u201d (see Matthew 4:19).<\/p>\n

It seems to me that the essence of our lives is distilled down to these two brief elements in these opening scenes of the Savior\u2019s mortal ministry. One element is the question, to every one of us, \u201cWhat seek ye? What do you want?\u201d The second is his answer as to how to get that. Whoever we are, and whatever our problems, his response is always the same, forever: \u201cCome unto me.\u201d Come see what I do and how I spend my time. Learn of me, follow me, and in the process I will give you answers to your prayers and rest to your souls.<\/p>\n

My beloved young friends, I know of no other way for you to succeed or to be happy or to be safe. I know of no other way for you to be able to carry your burdens or find what Jacob called \u201cthat happiness which is prepared for the saints\u201d (2 Nephi 9:43). That is why we make solemn covenants based on Christ\u2019s atoning sacrifice, and that is why we take upon us his name. In as many ways as possible, both figuratively and literally, we try to take upon us his identity. We seek out his teachings and retell his miracles. We send latter-day witnesses, including prophets, apostles, and missionaries, around the world to declare his message. We call ourselves his children, and we testify that he is the only source of eternal life. We plead for him to swing open the gates of heaven in our behalf and trust everlastingly that he will, based upon our faithfulness.<\/p>\n

My desire for you tonight is to have more straightforward experience with the Savior\u2019s life and teachings. Perhaps sometimes we come to Christ too obliquely, focusing on structure or methods or elements of Church administration. Those are important and, like the tithes of mint and anise and cummin Christ spoke of, should be observed\u2014but not without attention to the weightier matters of the kingdom, first and foremost of which is a personal spiritual relationship with deity, including the Savior, whose kingdom this is.<\/p>\n

The Prophet Joseph Smith taught in the Lectures on Faith<\/i> that it was necessary to have \u201can acquaintance\u201d (that\u2019s his phrase) with the divine attributes of the Father and the Son in order to have faith in them. Specifically he said that unless we believe Christ to be \u201cmerciful and gracious, slow to anger, long-suffering and full of goodness,\u201d that unless we can rely on these unchanging attributes, we would never have the faith necessary to claim the blessings of heaven. If we could not count on \u201cthe excellency of . . . character\u201d (that is also his phrase) maintained by the Savior and his willingness and ability to \u201cforgive iniquity, transgression, and sin,\u201d we would be, he said, \u201cin constant doubt of salvation.\u201d But because the Father and the Son are unchangeably \u201cfull of goodness\u201d then, in the words of the Prophet, such knowledge \u201cdoes away [with] doubt, and makes faith exceedingly strong\u201d (Lectures on Faith<\/i> 3:19\u201320).<\/p>\n

Lay Down Your Burden<\/b><\/h2>\n

I don\u2019t know what things may be troubling you personally tonight, but, even knowing how terrific you are and how faithfully you are living, I would be surprised if someone somewhere weren\u2019t troubled by a transgression or the temptation of transgression. To you, wherever you may be, I say, Come unto him and lay down your burden. Let him lift the load. Let him give peace to your soul. Nothing in this world is more burdensome than sin. It is the heaviest cross men and women ever bear. And while I believe you to be the greatest generation of young adults ever to live in this Church, nevertheless the world around you is an increasingly hostile and sinful place. Occasionally that splashes onto us, and perhaps, in the case of a few of you, it may be nearly drowning you.<\/p>\n

To anyone struggling under the burden of sin, we say again with the Prophet Joseph that God has \u201ca forgiving disposition\u201d (Lectures on Faith <\/i>3:20). You can change. You can be helped. You can be made whole\u2014whatever the problem. All he asks is that you walk away from the darkness and come into the light,<\/i> his light, with meekness and lowliness of heart. That is at the heart of the gospel. That is the very center of our message. That is the beauty of redemption. Christ has \u201cborne our griefs, and carried our sorrows,\u201d Isaiah declared, \u201cand with his stripes we are healed\u201d\u2014if we want to be (Isaiah 53:4\u20135; Mosiah 14:4\u20135).<\/p>\n

For anyone out there seeking the courage to repent and change, I remind you that the Church is not a monastery for the isolation of perfect people. It is more like a hospital provided for those who wish to get well. Do whatever you have to do to come into the fold and be blessed. For some of you that is simply to live with greater faith, to believe more. For some of you it does mean to repent: Right here. Tonight. For some of you (I hope<\/i> there are investigators out there. There better be!) it means to be baptized and come into the body and fellowship of Christ. For virtually all of us it means to live more by the promptings and promises of the Holy Ghost and to \u201cpress forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is the way,\u201d Nephi said\u2014there is that word again\u2014\u201cand there is none other way . . . whereby man [or woman] can be saved in the kingdom of God\u201d (2 Nephi 31:20\u201321).<\/p>\n

This reliance upon the forgiving, long-suffering, merciful nature of God was taught from before the very foundation of the world. It was always to give us hope and help, a reason to progress and improve, an incentive to lay down our burdens and take up our salvation. May I be bold enough to suggest that it is impossible for anyone who really knows God to doubt his willingness to receive us with open arms in a divine embrace if we will but \u201ccome unto him.\u201d There certainly can and will be plenty of external difficulties in life. Nevertheless the soul that comes unto Christ dwells within a personal fortress, a veritable palace of perfect peace. \u201cWhoso hearkeneth unto me,\u201d Jehovah says, \u201cshall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil\u201d (Proverbs 1:33).<\/p>\n

That is exactly what Paul said to the Corinthians. Trying to help them keep their chin up\u2014and the Corinthians had a lot to be grim about\u2014he wrote:<\/p>\n

Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;<\/i><\/p>\n

Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.<\/i> [2 Corinthians 1:3\u20134]<\/p>\n

Jesus taught the same thing to the Nephites, who also lived in a difficult world. \u201cFor the mountains shall depart and the hills be removed,\u201d he said, \u201cbut my kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed [from thee]\u201d (3 Nephi 22:10; see also verses 13\u201314). I love that. The hills and the mountains may disappear. The seas and oceans may dry up completely. The least likely things in the world may happen, but \u201cmy kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of my peace<\/i> be removed [from thee]\u201d (emphasis added). After all, he has, he reminds us, \u201cgraven thee upon the palms of my hands\u201d (1 Nephi 21:16). Considering the incomprehensible cost of the Crucifixion, Christ is not going to turn his back on us now.<\/p>\n

Peace to Our Souls<\/b><\/h2>\n

The Lord has probably spoken enough such \u201ccomforting words\u201d to supply the whole universe, it would seem, and yet we see all around us unhappy Latter-day Saints, worried Latter-day Saints, and gloomy Latter-day Saints into whose troubled hearts not one of these innumerable consoling words seems to be allowed to enter. In fact, I think some of us must have that remnant of Puritan heritage still with us that says it is somehow wrong to be comforted or helped, that we are supposed to be miserable about something.<\/p>\n

Consider, for example, the Savior\u2019s benediction upon his disciples even as he moved toward the pain and agony of Gethsemane and Calvary. On that very night, the night of the greatest suffering the world has ever known or ever will know, he said, \u201cPeace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you. . . . Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid\u201d (John 14:27).<\/p>\n

I submit to you that may be one of the Savior\u2019s commandments that is, even in the hearts of otherwise faithful Latter-day Saints, almost universally disobeyed; and yet I wonder whether our resistance to this invitation could be any more grievous to the Lord\u2019s merciful heart. I can tell you this as a parent: As concerned as I would be if somewhere in their lives one of my children were seriously troubled or unhappy or disobedient, nevertheless I would be infinitely more devastated if I felt that at such a time that child could not trust me to help, or should feel his or her interest were unimportant to me or unsafe in my care. In that same spirit, I am convinced that none of us can appreciate how deeply it wounds the loving heart of the Savior of the world when he finds that his people do not feel confident in his care or secure in his hands or trust in his commandments.<\/p>\n

Just because God is God, just because Christ is Christ, they cannot do other than care for us and bless us and help us if we will but come unto them, approaching their throne of grace in meekness and lowliness of heart. They can\u2019t help but bless us. They have to. It is their nature. That is why Joseph Smith gave those lectures on faith, so we would understand the nature of godliness and in the process have enough confidence to come unto Christ and find peace to our souls. There is not a single loophole or curveball or open trench to fall into for the man or woman who walks the path that Christ walks. When he says, \u201cCome, follow me\u201d (Luke 18:22), he means that he knows where the quicksand is and where the thorns are and the best way to handle the slippery slope near the summit of our personal mountains. He knows it all, and he knows the way. He is the way.<\/p>\n

Listen to this wonderful passage from President George Q. Cannon teaching precisely this very doctrine:<\/p>\n

No matter how serious the trial, how deep the distress, how great the affliction, <\/i>[God] will never desert us. He never has, and He never will. He cannot do it.<\/i> It is not His character [to do so]. He is an unchangeable being; the same yesterday, the same today, and He will be the same throughout the eternal ages to come. We have found that God. We have made Him our friend, by obeying His Gospel; and He will stand by us. We may pass through the fiery furnace; we may pass through deep waters; but we shall not be consumed nor overwhelmed. We shall emerge from all these trials and difficulties the better and purer for them, if we only trust in our God and keep His commandments.<\/i> [\u201cFreedom of the Saints,\u201d in Collected Discourses,<\/i> comp. and ed. Brian H. Stuy, 5 vols. (Burbank, California: B.H.S. Publishing, 1987\u201392), 2:185; emphasis added]<\/p>\n

Once we have come unto Christ and found the miracle of his \u201ccovenant of peace,\u201d I think we are under obligation to help others do so, just as Paul said in that verse to the Corinthians\u2014to live as much like he lived as we possibly can and to do as much of what he did in order that others may walk in this same peace and have this same reassurance.<\/p>\n

Heal One Another<\/b><\/h2>\n

Much of the comfort we have sung and spoken of tonight comes from the Savior\u2019s power to heal\u2014heal the wounds of life or of sorrow or, where necessary, of transgression. Having wanted that for<\/i> you tonight, that is one thing I would now ask from<\/i> you tonight\u2014healing, healing for others, healing for those you love and, yes, perhaps especially for those you don\u2019t. The people around us need a lot of help, and I think the Lord expects us to join in that effort. I think that is what he meant when he said, \u201cCome; see what I do and watch how I spend my time.\u201d<\/p>\n

Following my call to the Quorum of the Twelve, I read all of the standard works again, with special concentration on anything said or done by the Savior. Inasmuch as I couldn\u2019t sleep, I seemed to have more than the usual amount of time and privacy to consider these great teachings. As I put somewhat new and often tear-filled eyes to the scriptures, I saw perhaps for the first time the majesty of Christ\u2019s healing influence\u2014probably because I was needing so much of that myself. As the Savior\u2019s ministry in the New Testament began, Matthew records:<\/p>\n

And Jesus went about all Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing all manner of sickness and all manner of disease among the people.<\/i><\/p>\n

And his fame went throughout all Syria: and they brought unto him all sick people that were taken with divers diseases and torments, and those which were possessed with devils, and those which were lunatick, and those that had the palsy; and he healed them.<\/i> [Matthew 4:23\u201324]<\/p>\n

Then, following the Sermon on the Mount, in rapid succession, he heals a leper, the servant of a centurion, Peter\u2019s mother-in-law, and<\/p>\n

many that were possessed with devils . . . , and healed all that were sick:<\/i><\/p>\n

That it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Esaias the prophet, saying, Himself took our infirmities, and bare<\/i> our sicknesses.<\/i> [Matthew 8:16\u201317; emphasis added]<\/p>\n

This is then followed in equally rapid fashion by the casting out of the devils near Gadarene, the healing of a man with palsy, the miracle of the woman diseased 12 years with an issue of blood, the raising of a young woman from the dead, the sight returned to the eyes of two blind men, and speech returned to one who was dumb.<\/p>\n

With all of this work lying before him, Jesus caps off this almost nonstop scriptural sequence with these verses, which every missionary has heard in responding to his or her call:<\/p>\n

But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion on them, because they fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd.<\/i><\/p>\n

Then saith he unto his disciples, The harvest truly is plenteous, but the labourers are few;<\/i><\/p>\n

Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth labourers into his harvest.<\/i> [Matthew 9:36\u201338]<\/p>\n

We all know that wonderful call for more labourers into the work of the harvest refers primarily to teaching and testifying. It is a wonderful missionary scripture. But I wish to suggest tonight that in context it surely is a call to heal one another as well. Jesus certainly did his missionary work, and he did that first. But as he went about preaching and teaching, he bound up all manner of wounds in the process. The verse summarizing all of this, coming just before the calling of the twelve apostles and their charge to do likewise, says:<\/p>\n

And Jesus went about all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues, and preaching the gospel of the kingdom, and healing every sickness and every disease among the people.<\/i> [Matthew 9:35]<\/p>\n

Most of the healing I am speaking of tonight is not necessarily that of administering to the physically sick, though we surely should be ready and worthy to either request or give such a blessing at a moment\u2019s notice according to the order of the priesthood. No, what I am speaking of tonight are those rending, wrenching illnesses of the soul that need to be healed but may be quite personal\u2014some burden held deep inside, some weariness that is not always particularly obvious to the rest of the world. Here in the shadow of the 21st century we are more often to face slightly more metaphysical sicknesses than those biblical ills of old like leprosy and consumption.<\/p>\n

On the example of the Savior himself and his call to his apostles, and with the need for peace and comfort ringing in our ears, I ask you to be a healer, be a helper, be someone who joins in the work of Christ in lifting burdens, in making the load lighter, in making things better. Isn\u2019t that the phrase we used to use as children when we had a bump or a bruise? Didn\u2019t we say to Mom or Dad, \u201cMake it better.\u201d Well, lots of people on your right hand and on your left are carrying bumps and bruises that they hope will be healed and made whole. Someone sitting within reasonable proximity to you tonight is carrying a spiritual or physical or emotional burden of some sort or some other affliction drawn from life\u2019s catalog of a thousand kinds of sorrow. In the spirit of Christ\u2019s first invitation to Philip and Andrew and then to Peter and the whole of his twelve apostles, jump into this work. Help people. Heal old wounds and try to make things better.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know about you, but in my experience I hardly know of a hymn that caught on in the Church more readily than did \u201cLord, I Would Follow Thee,\u201d written by Susan Evans McCloud and my BYU friend of years, K. Newell Dayley. Don\u2019t we all respond to these lines:<\/p>\n

Savior, may I learn to love thee,<\/i>
\nWalk the path that thou hast shown,<\/i>
\nPause to help and lift another,<\/i>
\nFinding strength beyond my own.<\/i>
\nSavior, may I learn to love thee\u2014<\/i>
\nLord, I would follow thee.<\/i>
\n. . .
\nI would be my brother\u2019s keeper;<\/i>
\nI would learn the healer\u2019s art.<\/i>
\nTo the wounded and the weary<\/i>
\nI would show a gentle heart.<\/i>
\nI would be my brother\u2019s keeper\u2014<\/i>
\nLord, I would follow thee.<\/i>
\n[Hymns,<\/i> 1985, no. 220]<\/p>\n

Often we can, usually unwittingly, be quite insensitive to the circumstances and difficulties of those around us. We all have problems, and ultimately each individual has to take responsibility for his or her own happiness. None of us is so free of difficulty ourselves or so endowed with time and money that we can do nothing but tend \u201cthe wounded and the weary.\u201d Nevertheless, in looking to the Savior\u2019s life for an example, I suspect we can probably find a way to do a little more of that than we do.<\/p>\n

Since I have talked a little earlier tonight about repentance, let me repent a bit myself\u2014or at least do the confessing part and hope even now there is a way for me to make some restitution where that is still possible. My confession is that I wish I could go back to my youth and there have another chance to reach out to those who, at the time, didn\u2019t fall very solidly onto my radar scope. We are so vulnerable in our youth. (And I certainly consider you in your youth. In fact, you look younger to me every year of my life!) We want to feel included and important, to have the feeling we matter to others. In your years people deserve to have true friendships\u2014the real value of which, like our health, may never be realized until we face life without them. I think that my problem was not that I had too few friends but almost too many\u2014maybe more friends than anyone I know. But it is the associations I didn\u2019t have, the friends I didn\u2019t reach that cause me some pain now all these years later.<\/p>\n

Let me cite just one case, which will be guilt enough for tonight. In 1979 we held in St. George our 20-year class reunion for Dixie High School. We had great high school years filled with state football and basketball championships and a host of other \u201chometown, USA\u201d memories. My life was straight out of Happy Days.<\/i> I was Richie Cunningham before Ron Howard was Richie Cunningham. We even had our own Fonzie\u2014black leather jacket and all. Anyway, an effort was made to find current addresses for the entire class and get everyone to the reunion.<\/p>\n

In the midst of all that fun, I remember the terribly painful letter written by one very bright\u2014but, in her childhood, somewhat overweight and less than popular\u2014young woman who wrote something like this:<\/p>\n

Congratulations to all of us for having survived long enough to have a 20-year class reunion. I hope everyone has a wonderful time. But don\u2019t reserve a place for me. I have, in fact, spent most of those 20 years trying to forget the painful moments of our school days together. Now that I am nearly over those feelings of loneliness and shattered self-esteem, I cannot bring myself to see all of the class and run the risk of remembering all of that again. Have a good time and forgive me. It is my problem, not yours. Maybe I can come at the 30-year mark.<\/i><\/p>\n

(Which, I am very happy to report, she did.) But she was terribly wrong about one thing\u2014it was our problem, and we knew it.<\/p>\n

I have wept for her\u2014my friend\u2014and other friends like her in our youth for whom I and a lot of others obviously were not<\/i> masters of \u201cthe healer\u2019s art.\u201d We simply were not the Savior\u2019s agents or disciples that he intended a group of young people to be. I cannot help but wonder what I might have done to watch out a little more for the ones not included, to make sure the gesture of a friendly word or a listening ear or a little low-cost casual talk and shared time might have reached far enough to include those hanging on the outer edge of the social circle, and in some cases barely hanging on at all.<\/p>\n

Jesus said in the culmination of his most remarkable sermon ever:<\/p>\n

For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?<\/i><\/p>\n

And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?<\/i> [Matthew 5:46\u201347]<\/p>\n

It is with some apostolic sorrow that I acknowledge I have never known what it is like not to have a date when everyone else had one, nor to be painfully shy, nor to be chosen last for basketball, nor to be truly poor, nor to face the memories and emotions of a broken home\u2014nor any one of a hundred other things I know many in this audience have had to contend with in the past or are contending with right now. In acknowledging that, I make an appeal for us to reach beyond our own contentment, to move out of our own comfort and companion zone, to reach those who may not always be so easy to reach.<\/p>\n

If we do less, what distinguishes us from the biblical publican? I might not have been able to heal all the wounds of those I met in my young adult years\u2014your years\u2014but I can\u2019t help think that if I had tried even harder to be more of a healer, more of a helper, a little less focused on myself, and a little more centered on others, some days in the lives of those God placed in my path would have been much better. \u201cI have called you friends,\u201d the Savior said in one of his highest compliments to his disciples (John 15:15). Therefore, \u201clove one another, as I have loved you\u201d (verse 12). That harvest is great and the laborers are few.<\/p>\n

Christ Watches over Us<\/b><\/h2>\n

One last piece of counsel regarding coming to Christ. It comes from an unusual incident in the life of the Savior that holds a lesson for us all. It was after Jesus had performed the miracle of feeding the five thousand from five loaves of bread and two fishes. (By the way, let me pause here to say, Don\u2019t worry about Christ running out of ability to help you. His grace is<\/i> sufficient. That is the spiritual, eternal lesson of the feeding of the five thousand.) After Jesus had fed the multitude, he sent them away and put his disciples into a fishing boat to cross over to the other side of the Sea of Galilee. He then \u201cwent up into a mountain apart to pray\u201d (Matthew 14:23).<\/p>\n

We aren\u2019t told all of the circumstances of the disciples as they set out in their boat, but it was toward evening, and certainly it was a night of storm. The winds must have been ferocious from the start. Because of the winds, these men probably never even raised the sails but labored only with the oars\u2014and labor it would have been. We know this because by the time of \u201cthe fourth watch of the night\u201d (Matthew 14:25)\u2014that is somewhere between three and six in the morning\u2014they had gone only a few miles. By then the ship was caught up in a truly violent storm, a storm like those that can still sweep down on the Sea of Galilee to this day.<\/p>\n

But, as always, Christ was watching over them. He always<\/i> does, remember? Seeing their difficulty, the Savior simply took the most direct approach to their boat, striding out across the waves to help them, walking on the water as surely as he had walked upon the land. In their moment of great extremity, the disciples looked and saw in the darkness this wonder in a fluttering robe coming toward them on the ridges of the sea. They cried out in terror at the sight, thinking that it was a phantom upon the waves. Then, through the storm and darkness\u2014when the ocean seems so great and little boats seem so small\u2014there came the ultimate and reassuring voice of peace from their Master. \u201cIt is I,\u201d he said, \u201cbe not afraid\u201d (verse 27).<\/p>\n

This scriptural account reminds us that the first step in coming to Christ\u2014or his coming to us\u2014may fill us with something very much like sheer terror. It shouldn\u2019t, but it sometimes does. One of the grand ironies of the gospel is that the very source of help and safety being offered us is the thing from which we may, in our mortal shortsightedness, flee. For whatever the reason, I have seen investigators run from baptism, I have seen elders run from a mission call, I have seen sweethearts run from marriage, and I have seen young couples run from the fear of families and the future. Too often too many of us run from the very things that will bless us and save us and soothe us. Too often we see gospel commitments and commandments as something to be feared and forsaken.<\/p>\n

Let me quote the marvelous James E. Talmage on this matter:<\/p>\n

Into every adult human life come experiences like unto the battling of the storm-tossed voyagers with contrary winds and threatening seas; ofttimes the night of struggle and danger is far advanced before succor appears; and then, too frequently the saving aid is mistaken for a greater terror.<\/i> [But,] as came unto<\/i> [these disciples] in the midst of the turbulent waters, so comes to all who toil in faith, the voice of the Deliverer\u2014\u201cIt is I; be not afraid.\u201d <\/i>[Jesus the Christ,<\/i> 3d ed. (Salt Lake City: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 1916), p. 337]<\/p>\n

Brother Talmage used there the word succor.<\/i> Do you know its meaning? It is used often in the scriptures to describe Christ\u2019s care for and attention to us. It means literally \u201cto run to.\u201d What a magnificent way to describe the Savior\u2019s urgent effort in our behalf. Even as he calls us to come to him and follow him, he is unfailingly running to help us.<\/p>\n

Finally recognizing the Master that night, Peter exclaimed, \u201cLord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water.\u201d<\/p>\n

And Christ\u2019s answer to him was as it always<\/i> is, to all of us: \u201cCome,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

Instantly, as was his nature, Peter sprang over the vessel\u2019s side and into the troubled waves. While his eyes were fixed upon the Lord the wind could toss his hair and the spray could drench his robes, but all was well\u2014he was coming to Christ. Only when his faith and his focus wavered, only when he removed his glance from the Master to see the furious waves and the black gulf beneath him, only then did he begin to sink. In fear he cried out, \u201cLord, save me\u201d (Matthew 14:28\u201330).<\/p>\n

In some disappointment the \u201cMaster of ocean and earth and skies\u201d (see \u201cMaster, the Tempest Is Raging,\u201d Hymns,<\/i> 1985, no. 105) stretched out his hand and grasped the drowning disciple with the gentle rebuke \u201cO thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?\u201d (Matthew 14:31). (See also Frederic W. Farrar, The Life of Christ<\/i> [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1994], pp. 310\u201313.)<\/p>\n

Jesus is the Christ, the Son of the living God. This is his true and living Church. He wishes us to come unto him, to follow him, to be comforted by him. Then he wishes us to give comfort to others. However halting our steps are toward him\u2014though they shouldn\u2019t be halting at all\u2014his steps are never halting toward us. May we have enough faith to accept the goodness of God and the mercy of his Only Begotten Son. May we come unto him and his gospel and be healed. And may we do more to heal others in the process. When the storms of life make this difficult, may we still<\/i> follow his bidding to \u201ccome,\u201d keeping our eye fixed on him forever and single to his glory. In doing so we too will walk triumphantly over the swelling waves of life\u2019s difficulties and remain unterrified amid any rising winds of despair.<\/p>\n

I pray we will hear this very night that sweet utterance from the Savior of the world: \u201cCome unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden. . . . And ye shall find rest unto your souls\u201d (Matthew 11:28\u201329). \u201cBe of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid\u201d (Matthew 14:27). I pray this for you and for those you can help, in the sacred name of Jesus Christ. Amen.<\/p>\n

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